JUST BE YOURSELF

I heard, "We have room to like more than one person, but we run out of room and tolerance for imitators".
You hate to be that person who picks everything apart and fails to search for and find the good--no matter how long it takes. Some things just fall flat and have little in the way of redeeming qualities. A do-over is in order.
People do some interesting things. Whether compensating or overcompensating, you find yourself thinking, "Not everyone can get away with that". When THEY do it, it's hysterical. When YOU do it, it's offensive, condescending and fake.
Be authentic, and endeavor to know your audience. Don't underestimate their level of understanding. Dumbing down isn't impressive. Trying to relate is a dangerous thing, especially when, based solely on the hues of the faces you see, you automatically and mistakenly assume you have to.
If it's not your experience, don't fake it. it won't fly.
And another thing--- if you're smart and articulate in NW, continue to be so in SE.